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Disturbed Drummer Proposes to Girlfriend Onstage

At last night's (Aug. 31) DISTURBED show in Milwaukee WI, drummer Mike Wengren proposed to his girlfriend onstage. Before the set closer, "Stupify", DISTURBED frontman David Draiman handed the mic over to Mike, who explained how he's spent a lot of time in Milwaukee recently and how he met his girlfriend here. He then invited her onstage and proposed to her (and, of course, she said yes). The band congratulated him, had some shots, and then proceeded to finish the show.

DISTURBED's third album, "Ten Thousand Fists", is scheduled for release on September 20 via Reprise. The album features the debut of new bassist John Moyer (ex-THE UNION UNDERGROUND).

Source: Blabbermouth

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35 Comments on "Disturbed Drummer Proposes Onstage"

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1. sycness14 writes:

That's just wrong....you don't do that sh** at a (semi) metal concert.

I woulda been throwing sh** at em'....eggs maybe, hmmm.......

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 4:41 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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2. Symbolic writes:

I Disagree, if your passion is music, why not make a memorable moment on the place you love most?

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 4:50 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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3. metaldrummer86 writes:

duh ppl musicians are f***en human beings also!!! damn just everyone gets to see how they live in the media damn--- there is nothing gay bout proposing- now i bet if they were f***ing on stage u wouldnt think its emo man the point is their ppl!!!!!! get over it

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 5:06 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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4. broken face writes:

good luck 2 em thats all i can say

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 5:18 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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5. Veta writes:

awwwwwww!

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 10:58 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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6. MetalmAn1257 writes:

Hey people...i was at that show and it was freaking awesome! i had no clue what Mike (the drummer) was gonna say and when he proposed the place exploded and everyone was yelling and clapping and got even louder when she said yes..it was awesome..congrats to you Mike. the show was f*ckin incredible.

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 11:05 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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7. KANG writes:

Yeah i was at that show too, but unlike you metalman i believe the concert SUCKED. Disturbed has gone light as well as ill nino. Ill nino acting like hard asses on their set threatening someone in the crowd and telling people to mosh to "how can i live without you!?!?" are you kidding me. the only reason i went to the show is bc i got in for free, maybe if both those bands came out with releases like their first albums theyd be good again, but they wont do it, they will all remain mainstream so they can appeal to lighter audiences and make phat cash off it. Just like slipknot, staind, sevendust, korn, static x, mudvayne, ha even taproot, etc. All had heavy debut albums and SOLD OUT big time after that. My work here is done, nu "metal" can eat a d*ck.

# Sep 1, 2005 @ 11:27 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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8. salla writes:

i agree with Kang..

# Sep 2, 2005 @ 1:49 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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9. numetalrocker writes:

haha...i like nu metal n disturbed still kicks a$$ along with all those other bands

# Sep 3, 2005 @ 11:17 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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10. BrianSD writes:

Kang- I agree with you, Ill Nino's first disc was heavy as hell, now like most of those bands sound watered down. I'm still a big Sevendust fan, and I've heard 4 of their new songs and 3 of em are heavy as hell, check em out.

# Sep 3, 2005 @ 3:11 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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11. stoner-dude writes:

disturbed kick a$$ but those other bands u mentioned really do suck. and a man proposing to a women definetly isnt gay

# Sep 3, 2005 @ 5:52 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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12. KANG writes:

Being from Chicago and all its hard for me to bash on Disturbed like that, but truth be told - the purpose of going to a "metal" show is to release stress and anger and being in a decent pit, NOT watching guys dancing and grinding with their girlfriends next to me, along with seeing moms with their kids in the crowd, the crowd might as well have stuck their lighters up for half the set - and that guy proposing top the cake that was weak... theres a time and a place for everything and there was nothing stress releasing about that love scene displayed on stage. Some of the new Sevendust songs are sort of heavy, but dude they already released an accoustic cd, i can never take them seriously again man, come on. Next time i wanna see Disturbed play live along with all those other bands i mentioned above, i'll just flip on the tonight show or conan obrien

# Sep 3, 2005 @ 8:12 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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13. MetalmAn1257 writes:

hey kang, stress reliefe shouldnt be the only reason u go to a metal show..they are a band too not just some sort of strange stress releaving doctor..they have some great riffs and great songs. some people go to a metal show to actually hear the band because they like the band..but just cause its not double bass and the same f*cking riff over and over again u say their sell outs..they are musicallly talented people who are better than a lot of people at what they do.. i will say that the first album was much heavier but the second album is much better musically. and it shows that david can actually sing..im not not saying that the first album sucked because it was awesome but i think believe was awesome too. and when the drummer (mike) proposed on stage, (which i and pretty much the entire crowd thought that was awesome if u couldnt tell by everyone cheering and clapping) that wasnt weak at all..just cause hes in a band doesnt mean hes not a human being..

# Sep 4, 2005 @ 9:41 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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14. Linkin Park Killa writes:

disturbed is so gay. so so gay!!! And metalman, the same riff over and over again is not musically talent. Too many bands do that sh**. And that's the problem with metal these days. Bands are too scared to experiment and their philosophy is the harder the better. Not always the case.

# Sep 4, 2005 @ 1:16 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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15. RememberMetal? writes:

don't gay people like guys?...it --did-- say he proposed to a chick, right?...

meh, what do I know...

Never did care for Disturbed myself really..... but this is kind of what bands do.

They start out weird and heavy and nuanced etc (though Disturbed have never struck as anything other than the the mild-sauce of metal anyway) and then they "experiment", which means they add "normal" elements to their music that any average joe can say "HEEEEEY!....I LIKE THAT BEAT...I CAN DANCE TO IT"

and thus a cool band is lost too selling out.....but you have to start in some off kilter place to sellout at all and Disturbed hardly seemed to do that.

# Sep 4, 2005 @ 2:29 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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16. -....- writes:

hey f*** you dumbsh**s dont read about them if you dont like them your f***ing retarded if you dont get that point. ANYWAYS DUMBsh**S
CONGRATULATIONS TO MIKE- WISH HIM THE BEST TO COME

# Sep 4, 2005 @ 7:47 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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17. beavis or butthead writes:

to all you mutherf***ers who think Disturbed isn't metal, just remember, your right. i know , disturbed aint got sh** on Limp Bizkit when it comes to metal. get real you sh** eating donkey f***ers. just cause disturbed is fading from nu-metal to old school metal dont mean that there not metal. Blow me Keep putting out that killer sh** Disturbed

# Sep 4, 2005 @ 10:06 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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18. Linkin Park Killa writes:

Beavis is so so gay. Protecting 2 fa**ot bands. That's got to be the stupidest sh** I've ever heard. Limp even being close to metal. Simply retarted. U obviously don't know what your gay a$$ is talking about. Put your 2 cents away. Save it for a trip to see TRL live. f***in poser!

# Sep 5, 2005 @ 3:36 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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19. Shmotz101 writes:

no your gay, linkin park killa, disturbed is awesome, the only fa**ot around here is you so f*** off d*** sucking, dog f***ing, guy spanking, assfag.

# Sep 14, 2005 @ 12:41 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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20. RememberMetal? writes:

WOW.....

Post 17 really is clueless......

If anything taking a more traditional route may save Disturbed, or at least buy them some time......Disturbed arent selling out by being less nu-metal, they've always sucked.....Limp Bizkit is 10,000 times worse however....their metal like Toby Keith is metal.

# Sep 14, 2005 @ 4:27 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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21. Cfhdon83 writes:

I HOPE U ALL GO TO HEAVEN!! i did it all for the cookie yea the cookies yea so i can get that cookie and dip in my milk, yea dip it my milk. now i call that trl talent.
666 R.I.P DIME

# Sep 14, 2005 @ 6:08 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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22. key to nothing writes:

to moron who did post 17,by any chance were you in that same hole with sadam the last 10 years,theres just so much wrong with what you said i dont know were to start

# Sep 14, 2005 @ 7:15 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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23. Rulin Kmadd writes:

Not to shock anyone but I think this band is heading for the right direction
we'll see on their next album.
At least thier taking a little bit of a hint that nu-metal is dead.

# Sep 14, 2005 @ 7:48 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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24. Shmotz101 writes:

Limp Bizkit sux c*** but disturbed is awesome, and for the people who hate disturbed, why do you even come to the disturbed news forum thingy. that is retarded if you go to the news for bands you hate, and all you do is talk sh** about them. so why don't you fa**ot f***ers who hate disturbed get the f*** out of here.

# Sep 15, 2005 @ 12:39 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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25. skullface writes:

yeah right on! DISTURBED f***ING ROCKS!!!

# Sep 15, 2005 @ 4:49 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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26. key to nothing writes:

i dont know Rulin,sounds like the same old nu metal garbage from before

# Sep 15, 2005 @ 4:54 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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27. Rulin Kmadd writes:

I dont know Key. Seems like the riffs are more metal like and their are hints
of thrash in that single. Maybe they'll do some harmony and lead parts I would say
the next cd not this one. But they are heading in the right direction If they lean toward
a more metal approach I can see this band being a remotley power metal kind of
band.

# Sep 15, 2005 @ 7:57 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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28. ! writes:

once again!!!

# Sep 15, 2005 @ 10:08 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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29. disturbedchic writes:

I love Disturbed and always will! I just listened to their new CD and it totally rocks! Distubed is one of few bands that change how and what they sing about. That is not selling out! That just means that they have a open mind to what they want; not just playing what everyone is telling them sells!
I wasnt at the concert that mike proposed but i say GOOD LUCK! This is one of the reasons i love Disturbed! They dont treat the crowd like they are just there to watch and not really get involved with the band.

# Sep 20, 2005 @ 9:43 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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30. Metallicazx writes:

Look everybody, whether we like them or not, we shouldn't get offended by each other and we should say our opinions but you all shouldn't say that someone elses opinion is wrong!

I mean I think Disturbed f*ckin rocked during The Sickness and they got less metal and they dropped dead...but just because someone else has another opinion than you doesn't make you lesser or better ok....


Hehe now that was such a gay a$$ post XD

# Sep 21, 2005 @ 12:30 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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31. Who cares about some dude proposing to his women writes:

PANTALLICA!!!!! HELL YA

# Sep 21, 2005 @ 10:49 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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32. the only thing disturbed rocks are the support of mullets and acid wash jeans writes:

how cute... to bad disturbed the drummers girlfriend has a p***s

# Sep 21, 2005 @ 11:11 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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33. Someone old enough to remember rock... writes:

People talking about how "metal" this band is? Anyone who covers a Genesis/Phil Collins song can never again be taken seriously.

Land of Confusion. OMFG.

# Sep 26, 2005 @ 2:40 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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34. TwistedFairie writes:

not too big on disturbed

# Sep 26, 2005 @ 2:42 AM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
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35. TwistedFairie writes:

As I lay dying
blood seeps from my rists

the christening stars
shine upon my body

the sound of souls crying
soothes me somehow

I see a shadow dancing
it's dancing upon the grass

whilst laying in an empty field
it floats towards me

i lay frozen
anticipating...

my eyes close uncontrollably
the shadow begins to touch me

carrassing the pale skin
on my thighs
it moves on top of me

i feel "him" spreading my legs apart
i lay there mesmerized
i see nothing but black

"he" moves himself into me
slides in and out
so easily

im not able to move my body
i feel the pressure build
im about to explode

i open my mouth to scream
no sound follows

im able to open my eyes

I see nothing but fire,
horrific souls screaming
they point for me to look

I look
there sits Satan
laughing at me

he opens his mouth, smoke follows
and says, "you just got f***ed by

death, little whore, you must stay
and serve me for all eternity"

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