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Paradise Lost Drummer Quits The Band

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Paradise Lost drummer Jeff Singer has reportedly left the group, forcing the band to cancel their South American tour. The group have posted the following message online:

"It is with regret that we have to announce the cancellation of our South American tour, sincere apologies to all the fans and promoters involved but this decision follows the announcement of the departure of our drummer Jeff Singer. We are committed to doing the 20th anniversary 'Unholy Trinity' dates in Europe with a stand in drummer but it will be impossible to find and appoint a new drummer in time for the shows in South America . We hope to reschedule a South American tour next year."

Jeff Singer himself has posted the following statement regarding his departure:

"Dear everyone,

"I guess no one would have seen this coming but as of the end of August I will no longer be drumming for Paradise Lost. I have decided to hang up my sticks altogether. It is an incredibly hard decision to have had to make as drumming has been my life for as long as I can remember and through good and bad has been my living for nearly 20 years. It is going to be very difficult I am sure and after four and a half years I will miss Nick, Aaron, Steve, Greg (and Milly) very much but in my heart I know that it is the correct thing for me to do.

"So why am I leaving, well, to be honest it is a difficult thing to explain in a few paragraphs, but here goes.

"I am sure you are aware that the record industry is struggling and I for one have become increasingly disillusioned with the music business as a whole. I feel incredibly lucky to have travelled so much in my career. I have so many fantastic memories and have had a ton of priceless experiences. I have made friendships that will last a lifetime and I wouldn't change anything. However to have survived in this business for so long has meant great sacrifice and I have had to move the goalposts over the years to help make things happen and try and survive through some pretty hard times. More and more is being taken away and it is getting harder and harder to make excuses for why I do this.

"We toured so hard this past year, we were basically away for five out of six months and are still out as we speak. In past years I wouldn't be bothered but as a 37 year old man with a family now for me it has just been too tough. My sons are 1 and 3 and being away from them has just been too painful. I asked myself if I could see myself leaving them again for a three month stretch and the answer was no; I couldn't. I realised there was no point in having a family if I wasn't there and that is how it has to be. Sad as it is, losing my brother two years ago showed me that there is no point in having regrets or feeling that you should have said more or done more. Carpe Diem and all that.

"Coincidentally whilst I was thinking about my future I confided in my best friend who ended up offering me a job which will provide me with a good career and future which for a 37 year old man with nothing but drumming behind him was an offer too good to pass up.

"I appreciate the timing of my departure is terrible but September 1st was the start date for the job and I must go through with that.

"I feel with In Requiem I have gone out on a high. It has been a fantastic two years recording and touring for the album and to tour America with Nightwish the way we did fulfilled a life long dream for me. Not a day goes by now without me thinking about that tour and it will always be with me until the day I die.

"I thank everyone involved with Paradise Lost and I wish you heartfelt good luck for the future. I also thank all the great musicians I have played and toured with since 1986 and especially all the fans who have made it all worthwhile. I am sure everyone will understand and respect my decision.

"Thank you

Jeffo"

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4 Comments on "Paradise Lost Drummer Quits The Band"

xFiruath's avatar

Former Contributor

1. xFiruath writes:

And another one bites the dust. That's pretty much the same thing that happened with Peter Lindgren of Opeth, who quit the band to work in an IT job. I guess maybe it's just a question of the grass is always greener, but I personally couldn't see myself leaving a band like Paradise Lost or Opeth to work a day job. Isn't the whole point of being in a band to get away from the hum drum standard white picket fence life? But too each his own, if he wants to be with his family, more power to him. Hopefully they'll find a replacement soon!

# Aug 13, 2008 @ 3:27 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
Blindgreed1's avatar

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2. Blindgreed1 writes:

Actually, it sounds more to me like the pay scale aint what it used to be. It's another sad but true story in the music biz. The gig just doesn't pay what it used to. Most bands are taking their merch money from last nights gig and putting in the gas tank to get to the next show. It's a damned shame that the biz has come to this but it has. Nobody really makes it big anymore. A producer onece told me "it's a damned shame you have to pay the people that actually MAKE the music". Seems like he got his wish.

# Aug 13, 2008 @ 7:00 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
Txmetalhead's avatar

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3. Txmetalhead writes:

I completely understand his decision to leave the band. He wants to see his kids grow up and be a father. At 37 years old, it is hell on the joints to keep touring. I am not even in a band, and I suffer through long hours at concerts...granted I love it..but it tires me out bad. My back and feet are always aching after the show...and I am 37, myself. So I feel for the guy. Paradise Lost is an amazing band, but family is the most important thing..I respect that.

# Aug 14, 2008 @ 3:05 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address
Jackrum's avatar

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4. Jackrum writes:

damn.. that just sucks..

# Aug 14, 2008 @ 6:17 PM ET | IP Logged Reveal posts originating from the same IP address

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