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Remembering Dimebag Darrell Abbott on the Sixth Anniversary of His Death
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Dimebag Darrell would have celebrated his 44th birthday this past August, no doubt surrounded by friends and family, the love of his life Rita Haney, and his big brother Vinnie.
Black tooth grins would have been downed, and more than a few fireworks probably would have been shot up into the sky and at unsuspecting revelers. It would have been a true celebration of life, because, as the man himself often said, that’s the kind of fun Dime had. But six years ago to the day that lifelong celebration, along with the lives of four other members of the global metal family, was cut tragically short. By now we all know the story, there’s no sense in reliving the grisly details. Dime wouldn’t want us to dwell on the way he died; he would want us to focus on the way he lived.
To a person, everyone who came into contact with Dimebag Darrell as he made his way around the world several times over playing the music he loved was made to feel like an equal, like a friend. With Dime, there were no walls between the fans and the musicians, between crew and band. There was only kinship and a common love of music and having the best time humanly possible. Even those of us who never met the man felt like we knew him from watching the Pantera home videos and seeing him exude one hundred percent uninhibited enthusiasm on stage each and every night and completely unfiltered, boyish joy off stage when he partied with his brothers by blood and by metal, the hardest drinking band in the business, Pantera.
As we once again mark the passing of the man born Darrell Lance Abbott, we perhaps have more reason for hope this year than in years past, as two of those who were closest to him, his longtime girlfriend Rita Haney and his front man and friend Phil Anselmo, appear to have let the wounds inflicted by the acrimonious split of Pantera and certain comments made by Anselmo, taken out of context in the metal press and circulated with tabloid sensationalism, heal this year. Though the rift between Anselmo and Dime’s surviving brother Vinnie remains wide, we can be sure that Dime would enjoy seeing those who loved him most reunited in the spirit of his generous nature. In fact, it was only illness that prevented Anselmo from performing at Dimebash 2010, an all star tribute to the fallen guitar hero. In Rita’s forgiveness and Phil’s unwavering attempts at reconciliation, the gregarious and loving persona of Dime lives on.
2010 also marks the 20th anniversary of one of Dimebag’s signature performances, his work on the seminal “Cowboys from Hell” album. Though this was actually Pantera’s fifth record, it is regarded by fans as their official debut, and it was at this time that Dime’s untouchable sound, tone, and monumental southern fried wah pedal squeal were introduced to the world at large. His explosive and towering riffs were an extension of his larger-than-life personality, and there is no doubt that his fans will continue to remember him through immortal songs such as the album’s title track, the tune that would become the calling card of Pantera and the Pantera faithful alike, the soulful and mournful “Cemetery Gates,” and the almost tribal and unrepentantly heavy “Primal Concrete Sledge,” which amazingly was thrown together by Dime and his brother at the last minute during the “Cowboys” recording sessions when Dime heard Vinnie jamming on the intro drum beat in the studio, threw his guitar over his shoulder, and pounded out what would become one of Pantera’s concert staples on the spot.
Such was the level of heart behind Dime’s leads that Pantera fans from all corners of the globe can still hum his solos from these two-decade old tracks from memory. He was more than just a musician, but it’s as clear as a shot of Texas moonshine that music flowed from his fingertips and oozed from his pores like the cold sweat of a whisky hangover. So shed not a tear for Dimebag this year, but raise a glass and remind yourself of how he lived and what he stood for. As his friend and brother Phil Anselmo has often said, there will never be another like him. R.I.P. Dimebag Darrell Abbott. In the collective memories of the word’s metal family, you will always be that uncontainable force of nature that set the world on fire with the same unmatchable passion and drive that endeared you to millions who thought of you not as some distant and unreachable guitar god, but as a friend and brother in arms, even if we never had the pleasure of meeting you in person. Getcha’ pull!
Joe Henley is a freelance music journalist and editor currently living in Taipei, Taiwan. In addition to pulling vocal duty in a death metal band, he maintains a website on the Taiwanese metal scene and writes regular features on the touring bands that come through Taipei for a local monthly music magazine.
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Darrell was the best!! I met him in San Diego 1994 when I was in the service and back home in Detroit 1996 !!! Wile in Detroit, He said he remembered me and thanked me for my military service and making it home safe!! He gave me a beer BOTH times!!! The most down to earth rock star , An awesome human being, and I miss him every day... I salute you Darrell Lance Abbott, a shot of whisky to you my friend... We will join you in good time!!
Pantera first and for most is my favorite band. Although, I never got the chance to see them live, or meet Dime Pantera's music is just as metal as you can get. Vinnie Paul is a great guy, I met him though through HELLYEAH he still talked to me about Dime and Pantera. Once I turn 18 I'm planning to get CFH tattooed on me, and I will never forget the loss of Dime. This article was written for everyone and I hope that December 8th will be a day for remembering Dime's Life not his Death. RIP Brother Dime, We Love, Miss, and will never forget you.
hey thanks Joe R.... it is very important for folks to be reminded and have focus drawn to dime's extraordinary talent and his everlasting contribution of musical genius to METAL
his untimely and devastating death was, and remains, a tragedy in the truest sense....we can only be grateful to have lived in a time where many of us were fortunate enough to have seen his magic live, and all of us will always have his recordings and our memories of him to sustain us and his positive and profound influence on this continually evolving METAL movement that we are all so lovingly empassioned by...
Rock in Peace and Glory Brother
Long live the Diamond
I was lucky enough to see them 7 times through their existence. I, like BRIANMN, saw them when they toured with White Zombie in 1996 in Houston TX. I never saw 1 bad PANTERA show. Every show was different, and set lists changed, minus the mandatory songs.
At 4:20 pm EST today, I will be smoking a fat burrito in his memory. I invite all to join me where ever you are in the world, in remembering one of the greatest guitarists, and kindest humans ever. He gave 1000% every night and made everyone he met feel as if they were family.
R.I.P. BROTHER DIME. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND YOU WILL BE FOREVER MISSED!!
Because Dime appreciated smiling faces in the crowd, I'll share my favorite (pretty tame) Dimebag Darrell story here, as related to me by my friend Nick.
Nick, who can always be counted on to battle his way to the front of whatever pit he's in, was at a show in Sacramento (if I recall correctly) when a fan threw a giant green foam cowboy hat on stage. Without missing a beat, Dime reached down, grabbed the hat and put it on, much to the delight of the crowd. And, apparently, he spent much of the rest of the show banging his head furiously in this giant green monstrosity, for one of the funniest things Nick had seen in a great while.
So often, we take our music, with its images often of violence and death, so incredibly seriously. The lesson Dime taught us is that even if the music is sad or aggressive, there's great joy and laughter to be had playing it as well.
RIP
Pantera was my favorite band ever. Listening to DimeBag was the reason i picked up a guitar in the first place.I still listen to Pantera and enjoy the great music Dime gave us. I hope that someday Phil and Vinnie can heal those old wounds and hopefully someday rock together again.
I will never forget the day it happened so sad got into Pantera 3 years before Dimes tragic death just such a waste, to this day i still listen to Pantera albums never will get tired off them where ever you are Dime hope you still watching over us you will never be forgotten
R.I.P Metal Brother
Today, we blast Pantera anthems to remember our legend Dimebag. All we can say to Dime is "R.I.P metal brother", and to his killer, we say "F**K YOU MOTHERF***ER"
Once again "R.I.P Dime brother".
You will be missed forever, but your spirit will live on.
HORNS UP!
Greatest band and guitarist to ever walk the face of the earth. Not a day goes by that I don't think about Dime. I miss him more than anything. Music just isn't the same without him. But he has left an incredible legacy behind him and will always be remembered and treasured. R.I.P. Dimebag GETCHA PULL!
now listen here ya goddamn jackwagon^
there is none of that posthumous attribution of superlativity you're claiming going on here....Dime was loved and respected by his fellow axe men and the countless legions that are fans of his music when he was alive, and would indeed be so today if he still graced this good earth
you come off as a pseudo metal/guitar fvcking geek, who seems to presume that anyone of us true headbangers actually gives two fvcking sh!ts about YOU and your empty, punk a$$ perspective
ya best just keep it shut, fool
Wow, awesome write up Joe. I read 6 articles about Dimebag Darrell's tragic death today and this one is by far the best. The guy took the guitar to a new metal edge which had never been heard before. Sabbath (Iomi) did it in the 70's, Pantera (Darrell) owned it in the 90's. Glad someone payed appropriate homage to the man behind one of the most original, great metal bands. Thanks for the article, Joe!!!
rste, i dont know where youve been dude, i grew up with pantera since 1995, even back then, his influence was felt dude, give or take, you have the right for your own opinion, when he died, his influence was felt even stronger... I remember even back then, everyone thought he was just a gentle, friendly, and super talented person, his death just caused his influence to be felt even brighter..... he was a super super nice guy, he had nothing negative to say about anything, so positive.. his death caused me to realize that he didnt deserve that, not as a musician, but as a person., his personality was a bigger influence on me, then his guitar playing, because he was just really down to earth, and very friendly..not many people are like that, these days.
One time I went to interview Pantera for a radio station back in the eighties and was in their tour bus. I sat down with Darrell and Vinny and was taken with how very nice, intelligent and articulate both of them were. Anselmo wasn't really in that league. As for Rex Rockhead, he was so stoned he was filming the deli tray with a camcorder.
when i was a little metal head back in 92-93 my best bud had a brilliant idea to take his parents car out for a spin and get some grubb at an afterhours diner... on the way back home we had CFH playing real loud , my bud who at this time hadnt really ever drivin before took a corner 2 sharp and lost control and rolled into the ditch....... We both emerged a little bloody but ok nonetheless. through all this i remember the stereo was still going strong blasting CFH out of the twisted mass that used to be a car. \m/
I've been to many shows, but my all time best show was when Pantera opened up for Black Sabbath in Pittsburgh in 97 when Black Sabbath reunited with Ozzy. I will never forget that show or the music that Dimebag (and Pantera) brought to my world. It empowered me and it always will. RIP Dimebag. You are a true legend.
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RIP Dime.